MY BODY BELONGS TO ME
Books About Body Safety for Children and Their Parents
 
 
 
PARENT'S COLLECTION
 
Annabelle's secret: A Story About Sexual Abuse 
by Amy Barth
Annabelle's Secret: A Story About Sexual Abuse
by Amy Barth

Fourteen-year-old Annabelle tells the story of being sexually abused by a thirteen-year-old neighbor when she was seven years old, and about the long-term effects of the abuse and how she learned to deal with them. (Ages 6 - 10)
That uh-oh feeling : a story about touch 
by Kathryn Cole
That Uh-Oh Feeling : A Story About Touch
by Kathryn Cole

When Claire's soccer coach starts to flatter her too much and tickle her and ask her to keep it a secret, she starts to feel weird and decides to communicate her feelings and seek help from others. (Ages 5 - 8)
You Ruined It : A Book About Boundaries
by Anastasia Higginbotham

With the help of her mom and sister, an 11-year-old heals from the aftermath of being assaulted by her cousin.(Ages 8 - 12)
I said no! : a kid-to-kid guide to keeping private parts private 
by Zack King
I Said No! : A Kid-to-Kid Guide to Keeping Private Parts Private 
by Zack King

Written from a child's point of view, advises young readers on ways to handle a variety of problematic situations, provides an easy-to-use system to help children rehearse and remember appropriate responses to keep them safe, and includes coverage of where to go for help and how to deal with shame and guilt. (Ages 5 - 10)
The right touch : a read aloud story to help prevent child sexual abuse 
by Sandra Kleven
The Right Touch : A Read Aloud Story to Help Prevent Child Sexual Abuse
by Sandra Kleven

As a way of teaching her little boy about sexual abuse, a mother tells him the story of a child who was lured into the neighbor's house to see some non-existent kittens. (Ages 4 - 8)
Miles is the Boss of His Body
by Samantha Kurtzman-Counter

It is Miles' sixth birthday and his family pinches, noogies, hugs, picks up, and tickles him, but Miles does not like all the physical interaction and he gets fed up. (Ages 4 - 8)
An exceptional children's guide to touch: teaching social and physical boundaries to kids 
by Hunter Manasco
An Exceptional Children's Guide to Touch: Teaching Social and Physical Boundaries to Kids
by Hunter Manasco

A picture book designed for parents and professionals to use with children explains in simple terms how to tell the difference between acceptable and inappropriate touch, thereby helping the child with special needs stay safe.
Do you have a secret? 
by Jennifer Moore-Mallinos
Do You Have a Secret?
by Jennifer Moore-Mallinos

Discusses the difference between secrets that are fun to keep and those that make people unhappy, and encourages youngsters to confide in their parents or another trusted adult such painful matters as bullying or improper touching.
(Ages 4 - 8)
Let’s Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent & Respect
by Jayneen Sanders
Let’s Talk About Body Boundaries, Consent & Respect
by Jayneen Sanders

Teaching young children about body boundaries, both theirs and others, is crucial to a child’s growing sense of self, their confidence and how they should expect to be treated by others. This is a book to teach children about body ownership, respectful relationships, feelings and emotions, choices, and recognizing bullying behaviors. (Ages 4 - 8)
My Body! What I Say Goes! 
by Jayneen Sanders
My Body! What I Say Goes!
by Jayneen Sanders

The crucial skills taught in this book will help children to protect their bodies from inappropriate touch. Children will be empowered to say in a strong and clear voice, "This is my body! What I say goes!"(Ages 3 - 10)
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept 
by Jayneen Sanders
Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept
by Jayneen Sanders

This book was written to provide children with essential skills in self-protection, and to encourage them to always speak up. We recommend that children be read this story by a parent or caregiver.
(Ages 4 and up)
Predators and child molesters : what every parent needs to know to keep kids safe : a sex crimes DA answers 100 of the most asked questions 
by Robin Sax
Predators and Child Molesters : What Every Parent Needs to Know to Keep Kids Safe : A Sex Crimes DA Answers 100 of The Most Asked Questions
by Robin Sax

In this straightforward, clearly written guidebook, a veteran sex-crimes prosecutor and Los Angeles deputy district attorney answers 100 questions that she has most often encountered in her fifteen years of experience. From the definition of abuse to the profiles of a predator to how to report an incident and to whom, Sax provides practical, reassuring, and appropriate information.
My body belongs to me : a book about body safety 
by Jill Starishevsky
My Body Belongs to Me : A Book About Body Safety
by Jill Starishevsky

A guide about body boundaries shares gentle, straightforward advice about how to recognize potentially abusive situations while staying safe and asking for help. (Ages 4 - 8)
Not in room 204 : breaking the silence of abuse 
by Shannon Riggs
Not In Room 204 : Breaking the Silence of Abuse
by Shannon Riggs

At a report card conference, Mrs. Salvador informs Regina's mom that Regina is doing a great job, but she is very quiet. Regina thinks of the secret she keeps so quiet; the one even her mom doesn't know. Will Regina find the courage to tell Mrs. Salvador her terrible secret? This helpful book provides a tool for adults to gently discuss sexual abuse with young children. (Ages 5 - 8)
Stranger danger! : the reluctantly written, but absolutely necessary, book for today's boys and girls 
by Patricia Stirnkorb
Stranger Danger! : The Reluctantly Written, But Absolutely Necessary, Book For Today's Boys and Girls
by Patricia Stirnkorb

In rhyming text, explains to young readers that they should never go in a car, talk with, or accept gifts from strangers. (Ages 3 - 5)
 
PICTURE BOOKS
 
The Berenstain Bears learn about strangers 
by Stan Berenstain
The Berenstain Bears Learn About Strangers
by Stan Berenstain

The Berenstain Bear cubs learn not to be overly friendly with strangers and give their rules for dealing with them. Includes a list of Brother and Sister’s Rules for Cubs! (Ages 5 - 8)
Please Don't Give Me a Hug!
by Judi Moreillon
Please Don't Give Me a Hug!
by Judi Moreillon

There are children who enjoy a solid bear hug, and there are those who don't--and that's okay. Friendliness, love, and affection can be shown in many different ways! In this sweet book, young children share the different ways they feel comfortable being greeted by new or friendly acquaintances. (Ages 2 - 4)
More Than Fluff
by Madeline Valentine

A fuzzy little chick is rendered uncomfortable by friends who pet her, squeeze her and declare her cute when she endeavors to prove that she is more substance than fluff, in a relatable story that discusses the topics of autonomy and consent. (Ages 4 - 8)
 
FICTION
 
That's What Friends Do 
by Cathleen Barnhart
That's What Friends Do
by Cathleen Barnhart

Told in two voices, middle-schoolers Sammie and David's long-term friendship is endangered when new student Luke begins flirting with Sammie just when David decides to confess his crush on her. (Ages 8 - 12)
When you know what I know 
by Sonja Solter
When You Know What I Know
by Sonja Solter

Over the course of a year, ten-year-old Tori endures a difficult and emotional journey after revealing that she has been sexually abused by her uncle. Told in verse about her journey in the aftermath of the abuse, she encounters family members who don’t believe her and take her abuser’s side before she finds the courage to fight back. (Ages 8 - 12)
 
NONFICTION
 
Consent (for kids!) : boundaries, respect, and being in charge of yourself 
by Rachel Brian
Consent (For Kids!) : Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of Yourself
by Rachel Brian
 
Readers will learn about boundaries and how to set them; ways to respect themselves and others; what to do if someone makes them feel uncomfortable or unsafe; and much more. Along the way, they'll be encouraged to reflect on (and improve!) their own behavior and to practice consent in their daily lives. (Ages 6 - 10)
 
My body belongs to me from my head to my toes : From My Head to My Toes 
by Dagmar Geisler
My Body Belongs to Me From My Head to My Toes : From My Head to My Toes
by Dagmar Geisler

An informational picture book that provides children with confidence about accepting and rejecting physical contact from others is an invaluable resource that can help give children a voice in uncomfortable situations. (Ages 5 - 8)
Aly Raisman : athlete and activist 
by Anna Leigh
Aly Raisman : Athlete and Activist
by Anna Leigh

US Olympian Aly Raisman is a leader in and out of the gym. She has risen to great prominence as an outspoken voice against sexual assault. This title covers the most fascinating details of her life as a gold-winning gymnast. (Ages 9 - 14)
Under our clothes : our first talk about our bodies 
by Jillian Roberts
Under Our Clothes : Our First Talk About Our Bodies
by Jillian Roberts

In this illustrated nonfiction picture book, child psychologist Dr. Jillian Roberts introduces young readers to the ideas of body safety and body image.(Ages 6 - 9)
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Last updated 4/21.
 
 
 
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