Dealing with Bullies
Books for Children and Parents
 
 
     Picture Books
The Berenstain Bears Stand Up to Bullying 
by Mike Berenstain
The Berenstain Bears Stand Up to Bullying
by Mike Berenstain

Too-Tall Grizzly and his gang are bullies. The cubs find out that even bullies can be bullied. Ages 4 - 8
Morris Micklewhite and the tangerine dress 
by Christine Baldacchino
Morris Micklewhite and The Tangerine Dress
by Christine Baldacchino

A young boy faces adversity from classmates when he wears an orange dress at school, but things begin to change for him after he uses his imagination to paint a fantastic picture that he shares with his classmates. Ages 4 - 8 
I am enough
by Grace Byers
I Am Enough
by Grace Byers

Shares a story of loving who you are, respecting others and being kind to one another. Ages 3 - 8 
Henry and the bully 
by Nancy L. Carlson
 Henry and The Bully
by Nancy L. Carlson

When a bully starts stealing Henry's soccer ball at recess, the little mouse doesn't know what to do; after trying to ask for assistance from his mother and teacher, Henry stumbles onto a secret that helps him find his own solution to the bully problem.
Ages 5 - 8
	
Llama Llama and the bully goat
by Anna Dewdney
Llama Llama and The Bully Goat
by Anna Dewdney

Following their teacher's lead, Llama Llama speaks to Gilroy Goat and tells him he should not act like a bully on the playground. Ages 2- 6
The pout-pout fish and the bully-bully shark 
by Deborah Diesen
The Pout-Pout Fish and The Bully-Bully Shark
by Deborah Diesen

Mr. Fish finds the courage to speak up for his friends when a shark comes to the park and bullies them. Ages 3 - 7
Jacob's new dress 
by Sarah Hoffman
Jacob's New Dress
by Sarah Hoffman

A heartwarming tale that speaks to the unique challenges faced by boys who do not identify with traditional gender roles follows the experiences of young Jacob, who loves playing dress-up but who is told by his peers and parents that he cannot wear a dress to school. Ages 4 - 8 
 
The Recess Queen 
by Alexis O'Neill
The Recess Queen
by Alexis O'Neill

Mean Jean was Recess Queen and nobody said any different...Until a new kid came to school!
Ages 4 - 8
	
Extremely cute animals operating heavy machinery
by David Gordon
Strictly No Elephants
by Lisa Mantchev

When the local Pet Club will not admit his tiny pet elephant, a little boy discovers a way to help everyone understand that pets, like all friends, come in many shapes and sizes. Ages 4 - 8
Oliver Button is a sissy 
by Tomie DePaola
Oliver Button is a Sissy
by Tomie DePaola

A rerelease of 1979 classic follows the endeavors of a little boy who is bullied as a result of his love for the arts before a remarkable performance on stage gives him the chance to pursue his dreams. Ages 4-8
	
Extremely cute animals operating heavy machinery
by David Gordon
Extremely Cute Animals Operating Heavy Machinery
by David Gordon

When bullies try to stop the extremely cute animals from building their sand castle, they band together to build something bigger and better. Ages 4 - 8
Noni speaks up 
by Heather Hartt-Sussman
Noni Speaks Up
by Heather Hartt-Sussman

Standing by silently in fear while her friend is routinely bullied, Noni realizes that doing nothing is making her feel worse and gathers the courage to take matters into her own hands. Ages 5 - 8
Chrysanthemum 
by Kevin Henkes
Chrysanthemum
by Kevin Henkes

Chrysanthemum loves her name, until she starts going to school and the other children make fun of it. Ages 4 - 8 
Goggles! 
by Ezra Jack Keats
Goggles!
by Ezra Jack Keats

Two boys must outsmart the neighborhood bullies before they can enjoy their new treasure, a pair of lens-less motorcycle goggles. Ages 5 - 9
Swimmy 
by Leo Lionni
Swimmy
by Leo Lionni

When his school of fish is attacked by a big tuna, Swimmy goes out on his own and discovers the wonders of the sea, so when he finds a new school, he helps them find a way to venture out and stand up to to the bigger fish. Ages 3 -8 
 
 
Just kidding 
by Trudy Ludwig
Just Kidding
by Trudy Ludwig

With help from his father, older brother, and teacher, D.J. learns how to handle a classmate who claims that his mean-spirited "teasing" is just a joke, in a title that looks at relational aggression from the author of My Secret Bully. Ages 5 - 10
Marlene, Marlene, Queen of Mean 
by Jane Lynch
Marlene, Marlene, Queen of Mean
by Jane Lynch

The Emmy Award-winning actress and singer from Glee and a clinical psychologist present the story of a mean-spirited bully who rules the playground and school until a big boy stands up to her and says what everyone else has been too fearful to say. Ages 3 - 7
 
Get up, stand up 
by Cedella Marley
Get Up, Stand Up
by Cedella Marley

The author of One Love and Three Little Birds presents a latest adaptation of one of her music icon father’s songs, depicting a young girl who responds to teasing and intimidation with kindness and peaceful, loving action. Ages 3 - 8
Nobody knew what to do : a story about bullying 
by Becky R. McCain
Nobody Knew What to Do : A Story About Bullying
by Becky R. McCain

When bullies pick on a boy at school, a classmate is afraid, but decides that he must do something.
Ages 5 - 8
Martha walks the dog 
by Susan Meddaugh
Martha Walks The Dog
by Susan Meddaugh

While on one of her beloved walks, Martha investigates a recently sold house down the street, only to find a big, mean blustering tough-dog named Bob, and Martha must keep her wits about her to protect her buddies and herself from the savage bully. Ages 4 - 8
Say something 
by Peggy Moss
Say Something
by Peggy Moss

A child who never says anything when other children are being teased or bullied finds herself in their position one day when jokes are made at her expense and no one speaks up. Ages 5 -10
Bully
by Patricia Polacco
Bully
by Patricia Polacco

Sixth-grade friends Lyla and Jamie, both new to their school, stand up for each other when a clique of popular girls bullies them online. Ages 7 - 12
The smallest girl in the smallest grade 
by Justin Roberts
The Smallest Girl in The Smallest Grade
by Justin Roberts

Sally McCabe is a very little girl, and nobody notices her, although she notices everything that goes on around her--but when she speaks out about the unkindness she sees, people start to pay attention. Ages 3 - 6
The Together Tree by Aisha Saeed book cover
The Together Tree
by Aisha Saeed
 
At his new school, quiet Rumi feels small and unwelcome, and a few kids bully him for being different and wearing bright shoes. He finds refuge beneath the old willow tree by the playground and builds his own world of hope and dreams of belonging.

One day, when Rumi is made a target again, one of his classmates bravely steps in to defend him. It’s in that moment of solidarity Rumi’s class finally realizes that under the shade of the willow tree, all are welcome, and they create a space they can all play in—together.
Ginny Louise and the school showdown 
by Tammi Sauer
Ginny Louise and The School Showdown
by Tammi Sauer

Three school troublemakers meet their match in a new student whose unwavering cheerfulness overcomes their bullying tactics, in a story that combines rhyming wordplay and engaging animal illustrations. Ages 5 - 8
 
Bully 
by Laura Vaccaro Seege
Bully
by Laura Vaccaro Seeger

Interacting with other animals in mean-spirited ways, a little bull calls names and behaves in an intimidating manner until his bullying behavior is brought to his attention. Ages 3 - 7 
 
Lili Macaroni
by Nicole Testa
Lili Macaroni
by Nicole Testa

Lili Macaroni loves every feature she has inherited from a family member, but when she starts kindergarten she is teased for those very traits. Burdened by unhappiness, she creates a polka-dotted butterfly and imagines it flying her sorrows away -- and finds she has introduced a powerful tool for conversations about emotions, self-esteem, and resilience. Ages 4 - 8 
How to Be a Lion 
by Ed Vere
How to Be a Lion
by Ed Vere

When Leonard the lion and his friend Marianne, a duck, are confronted by a pack of lion bullies, they find a creative way to stand up for themselves. Ages 4 - 8
Fiction
Chrissa stands strong 
by Mary Casanova
Chrissa Stands Strong
by Mary Casanova

As Chrissa and her friends practice so they can try out for the swim team in the fall, someone starts sending them mean text messages and emails, and then Chrissa's brother Tyler has a terrible accident.
Ages 6 - 12
Fort 
by Cynthia C. DeFelice
Fort
by Cynthia C. DeFelice

When older boys tear apart the fort where they have been enjoying a wonderful summer, Wyatt and Augie team up with another bullied kid to exact revenge, with unexpected consequences.
Ages 9 - 12
Poison Ivy 
by Amy Goldman Koss
Poison Ivy
by Amy Goldman Koss

In a government class three popular girls undergo a mock trial for their ruthless bullying of a classmate. Ages 11 and up
Bernice Buttman, model citizen 
by Niki Lenz
Bernice Buttman, Model Citizen
by Niki Lenz

After she grows tired of being labeled a "bully," Bernice Buttman is left by her mother to stay with her aunt, who is a nun, and decides to become a model citizen. Ages 8 - 12
Blubber 
by Judy Blume
Blubber
by Judy Blume

 
Jill goes along with the rest of the fifth-grade class in tormenting a classmate and then finds out what it is like when she, too, becomes a target.
Ages 8 - 12
Jake Drake, bully buster 
by Andrew Clements
Jake Drake, Bully Buster 
by Andrew Clements

.Fourth-grader Jake Drake relates how he comes to terms with SuperBully Link Baxter, especially after they are assigned to be partners on a class project.
Ages 7 - 10
Dinosaur Boy
by Cory Putman Oakes

Sprouting a tail and spikes over the summer before fifth grade, Sawyer, a boy with the dinosaur gene, is bullied in school, but when his tormentors begin to disappear, it is up to Sawyer, his best friend Elliot, and a mysterious new girl to rescue them from a galactically horrible fate.
Ages 9 and up
Secret Identity 
by Wendelin Van Draanen
Secret Identity
by Wendelin Van Draanen

Tired of the abuse that he's suffered because of bully Bubba Bixby, fifth-grader Nolan Byrd allows his inner super hero to emerge, inspired by a class project. Shredderman is born, and Nolan springs into action, armed with a computer, a cleverly concealed digital camera, and his own top-secret Web page. Ages 8 - 11
 
	
Say It Out Loud
by Allison Varnes
Say It Out Loud
by Allison Varnes 


Always quiet due to her stutter, Charlotte Andrews must find her voice, face her fears and stand up for what’s right as she writes anonymous encouraging letters to save the school play and her best friendship. (Ages 8 - 12)
Nonfiction
The No More Bullying Book for Kids : Become Strong, Happy, and Bully-Proof 
by Vanessa Green Allen
The No More Bullying Book for Kids : Become Strong, Happy, and Bully-Proof
by Vanessa Green Allen
 
Being bullied hurts and it's easy to feel as though you don't have any power, which can be scary and lonely. But you're not powerless, and you're definitely not alone. Here you'll find the information you need to know about bullying as well as tips and tricks for dealing with specific situations when you or someone you know is being bullied. 
  
Start now! : you can make a difference 
by Chelsea Clinton
Start now! : You Can Make a Difference
by Chelsea Clinton

Discusses the many ways children can make a positive change in the world, including planting more trees to reduce global warming, protecting endangered animals and their habitats, fighting food waste, and standing up to bullies. Ages 9 - 13
Dealing With Bullying 
by Holly Duhig
Dealing With Bullying
by Holly Duhig

What does it feel like to be bullied? If you're being bullied, who can you talk to, and what can you do to make the situation better? Using a relatable, scrapbook-style format, this volume helps readers answer these and other common questions about dealing with bullying. Ages 6 - 10
 
We want you to know: kids talk about bullying 
by Deborah Ellis
We Want You to Know: Kids Talk About Bullying
by Deborah Ellis

Presents interviews with students who have been bullied, as they describe their experiences with peers, parents, teachers, and school administrators, along with advice on the best methods that can be used to stop bullying behavior. Ages 8 -14
Tough! 
by Erin Frankel
Tough!
by Erin Frankel

The three books in the series tell the story of an ongoing case of bullying from three third graders' perspectives and how each character learns to face the challenge with the help of friends, peers and caring adults. Ages 7 - 10
Why are you picking on me?: dealing with bullies 
by John Burstein
Why Are You Picking on Me?: Dealing With Bullies
by John Burstein

Teaches the nature of bullying, and suggests techniques for avoiding and overcoming bullies, including telling adults, keeping with friends, and confronting the situation. Ages 6 - 11
Speak up and get along!: learn the mighty might, thought chop, and more tools to make friends, stop teasing, and feel good about yourself 
by Scott Cooper
Speak Up and Get Along!: Learn The Mighty Might, Thought Chop, and More Tools to Make Friends, Stop Teasing, and Feel Good About Yourself
by Scott Cooper

What if every kid had a handy toolbox of ways to get along with others? That’s just what this book is: a collection of 21 concrete strategies kids can pull out and use to express themselves, build relationships, end arguments and fights, halt bullying, and beat unhappy feelings. Ages 6 - 11
 
What to do if you are bullied 
by Addy Ferguson
What To Do If You are Bullied
by Addy Ferguson

Identifies different types of bullying, describes how bullying can affect people, and details what to do in case one is bullied. Ages 6 - 9
My Life Beyond Bullying : A Mayo Clinic Patient Story
by Hey Gee
My Life Beyond Bullying : A Mayo Clinic Patient Story
by Hey Gee
 
When some kids at Alex's new school start bullying him, he just wants to escape. He feels guilty and stressed about what's happening. But what can he do? The challenges Alex experienced are common. Still, there are important steps you can take when you or someone you know is being bullied. Find out how Alex gets help and discovers his life beyond bullying. Ages 8 - 12
  
Bullying 
by Jane Lacey
Bullying
by Jane Lacey

Teaches young readers how to effectively deal with bullies and avoid giving in to peer pressure to bully others. Ages 8 - 12
 
You can stop bullying : stand by or stand up? 
by Connie Colwell Miller
You Can Stop Bullying : Stand By or Stand Up?
by Connie Colwell Miller

In this illustrated choose-your-own-ending book, Elizabeth witnesses John getting bullied. Will she stand by and let it happen, or will she stand up and help John? Readers make choices for Elizabeth and read what happens next, with each story path leading to different consequences. Ages 5 - 8
 
Stand up to bullying 
by Frank Murph
Stand Up to Bullying
by Frank Murphy

Teaches young readers about the value of being a good friend and the hazards of bullying. This book is intended to help build a foundation for students to develop into morally responsible, compassionate citizens and, with examples, show them how to make the choices that will let them grow into people of character. Ages 5 - 9
 
Parent's Collection
The bullying breakthrough : real help for parents and teachers of the bullied, bystanders, and the bullies 
by Jonathan R. McKee
The Bullying Breakthrough : Real Help for Parents and Teachers of The Bullied, Bystanders, and The Bullies
by Jonathan R. McKee

Provides readers with ways to offer open dialogue, encouragement, and validation for those being bullied, the bystanders, and the bullies themselves.
My secret bully 
by Trudy Ludwig
My Secret Bully
by Trudy Ludwig

Monica confides to her mother that her best friend Katie is treating her badly, and together they figure out what to do about it in a story that also includes a note to parents and teachers, as well as related resources. Ages 6 - 9 
 
 
 
Bully-proofing children : a practical, hands-on guide to stop bullying 
by Joanne Scaglione
Bully-Proofing Children : A Practical, Hands-On Guide to Stop Bullying
by Joanne Scaglione

Written for primary and secondary educators as well as parents, the authors' present their program for dealing with the problem of bullying, including discussion of cyberbullying and prevention strategies.
 
 
 
Equation of life: a film about bullying through the eyes of a child
A film by Gerry Orz
The Equation of Life: A Film About Bullying Through The Eyes of a Child
A film by Gerry Orz

Inspired by a true story. When eleven year old Adam is bullied in his new town on his way to school, he begins to video journal his daily experiences. When he finally takes matters into his own hands, everyone around him is affected. His parents, his sister, the bully and his mother; they all pay a price for their actions.
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Last updated 10/22.
 
 
 
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