Self-Help
 
The unexpected journey : finding strength, hope, and yourself on the caregiving path by Emma Heming Willis
The unexpected journey : finding strength, hope, and yourself on the caregiving path
by Emma Heming Willis

Draws on personal experience and expert insights to support dementia caregivers with practical advice, emotional validation and strategies for maintaining self-care and resilience while navigating the unpredictable, often isolating and life-altering reality of supporting a loved one with frontotemporal dementia.
What matters most : lessons the dying teach us about living by Diane Button
What matters most : lessons the dying teach us about living
by Diane Button

Drawing on nearly 20 years of experience, a death doula shares intimate stories of individuals at the end of life, offering enduring lessons on kindness, joy, connection and meaning, along with practical tools for living with greater clarity and purpose.
Are you mad at me? : how to stop focusing on what others think and start living for you by Meg Josephson
Are you mad at me? : how to stop focusing on what others think and start living for you
by Meg Josephson

A compassionate guide that reframes people-pleasing as a trauma response rather than a personality trait, offering relatable stories, practical exercises and tools to help readers set boundaries, embrace their true selves and build healthier, more authentic relationships. 
Joyspan : the art and science of thriving in life's second half by Kerry Burnight
Joyspan : the art and science of thriving in life's second half
by Kerry Burnight

"Dr. Kerry Burnight--known to her many followers as "Dr. Kerry"--is sparking a revolution to make older better. Fed up with the fear driven, anti-aging hysteria, hundreds of thousands of people turn to Dr. Kerry for her practical, effective and upliftingapproach to navigating longevity--our parents' and our own. In Joyspan, Dr. Kerry shares her popular philosophy and tools in a comprehensive resource that moves readers from fear to peaceful confidence. Dr. Kerry's insights, along with those of her inspiring 95 year-old mother Betty, are based upon a profound truth: the key to good longevity isn't the length of your life, it's the quality of your life. Books that advance lifespan and "healthspan" don't address the whole picture. Dr. Kerry introduces readers to the critical concept of "joyspan" based on the science of well-being, contentment, connection, meaning, growth, choice, and purpose. Part manifesto, part how-to guide, Joyspan proves that internal strength is as critical as external fitness. Filledwith both perspective-shifting strategies and troubleshooting for the specific challenges of aging--including caregiving, dementia, unexpected diagnoses, isolation, uncoupling via death or divorce, financial concerns, and more--this book is an essential resource for a generation looking for a better way to grow older--and to help our aging parents do the same"
Becoming you : the proven method for crafting your authentic life and career
by Suzy Welch

Becoming You guides readers through the process of excavating their truest values, identifying their outstanding aptitudes, and finally, pinpointing their economically viable interests, that is, the kind of work that calls them emotionally and intellectually, and also makes sense financially. Ultimately, Becoming You, at turns warm, witty, pragmatic, and filled with tough-love, is your guide to discovering the life you were meant to live.
How to giggle : a guide to taking life less seriously
by Paige DeSorbo

Finding joy and laughter in the mundane can be challenging at times, but Hannah Berner and Paige DeSorbo have mastered the art of not taking life too seriously. Brought together under the bright lights of reality television, these best friends bonded inincredibly intense circumstances. They quickly came to realize that one of the bedrocks of their friendship is their shared experience with social anxiety. As their friendship deepened, they found themselves constantly devolving into laughter, earning them the nickname "The Giggly Squad," and with that, their superpower-laughing through life's hardest moments-was born. Their podcast, Giggly Squad, feels like calling your best friend for a long overdue catch-up. No topic is off limits. No subject too small. And, most importantly, nothing is so serious that you can't find a way to make it seem less scary by poking fun at it.
Life is a lazy susan of sh*t sandwiches
by Jennifer Welch

Long before their blockbuster podcast, I've Had It, Jennifer Welch and Angie "Pumps" Sullivan were simply two best friends, supporting each other through the ups and downs of life. Together they've celebrated family milestones and cheered on professional successes, but they've weathered the storms together too. For the first time, Angie and Jennifer open up about the most personal moments that shaped their worldviews, sharpened their humor and inspired the "hopeful cynicism" that underpins their podcast. From infidelity, addiction and sobriety to economic instability, struggles with self-worth and brushes with fame, they've seen it all, and they're here to help guide readers on their own journeys, showing us how we too can center our lives around humor, hope and connection and let go of the rest.
Drink water and mind your business : a Black woman's guide to unlearning the BS and healing your self-esteem
by Donna Oriowo

Self-esteem, confidence, and sexual satisfaction are not one-size-fits-all problems. But in a world built on white supremacy, they sure are treated that way. DRINK WATER AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS is the ultimate self-help resource for Black women and women of color that acknowledges you, reader, are not the problem. The problem is the racist system that told you you are.
The Next Conversation : Argue Less, Talk More
by Jefferson Fisher

Provides a three-part communication system — Say it with control, confidence, and to connect - to help readers handle tough situations, assert themselves, set boundaries, and improve relationships by transforming the way they communicate, with practical strategies and phrases for any conversation.
Change the recipe : because you can't build a better world without breaking some eggs
by Josâe Andrâes

A Michelin-starred chef with more than forty restaurants, Jose is also the founder of World Central Kitchen, a nonprofit dedicated to feeding the hungry in the wake of natural and man-made disasters. His lifetime of experience--from kitchens to conflict zones--has given him a wealth of stories and teachable moments that are funny, touching, and insightful, all animated by the belief that food can bring us closer together and the conviction that each of us can change the world for the better.
Secrets of adulthood : simple truths for our complex lives
by Gretchen Rubin

The #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Happiness Project and Better Than Before distills her key insights into simple truths for living with greater satisfaction, clarity and happiness.
We Need Your Art : Stop Messing Around and Make Something
by Amie McNee

A manifesto on the vital, human importance of creating, with guidance for all artists in all endeavors, whether they're starting their journey or seeking a fresh perspective. Using her own experiences as a novelist and the inspiration she's shared as a creative coach, Amie guides you on why we need your art and how you can make it happen, starting with a two-week reset plan to help you kick-start your creative habit. Each chapter also includes journal prompts that help you apply what you have learned to your new life. 
Gentle : Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want
by Courtney Carver

A guide to overcoming overwhelm and embracing self-compassion through 30 mindful practices that promote rest, simplicity and personal growth, encouraging a slower pace, reduced stress, and more meaningful relationships for lasting joy and balance.
The Grieving Body : How the Stress of Loss Can be an Opportunity for Healing
by Mary-Frances O'Connor

Discusses how grief and other major stressors impact physical health, combining scientific research and personal stories to reveal the effects on the cardiovascular, endocrine, and immune systems, while addressing common questions about grief's cognitive impact and its relationship to overall well-being.
Perfect is Boring (and it tastes like kale) : Finding Belonging and Purpose Without Changing Who You Are
by Jess Johnston

Over the last decade the author has reached hundreds of thousands of women with her message of authenticity and refreshing realness, and this volume reminds readers that no one is living a perfect life—and there's a powerful interpersonal connection that happens when we're real about it.
What if You Are the Answer? : and 26 Other Questions that Just Might Change Your Life
by Rachel Hollis

Shares transformative questions that have guided the author's journey of healing and growth, encouraging readers to confront fears, reassess circumstances, and take responsibility for their own development through her signature humor and vulnerability, ultimately aiming to inspire self-discovery and resilience in the face of life's challenges.
Beyond Anxiety : Curiosity, Creativity, and Finding Your Life's Purpose
by Martha Nibley Beck

A guide to overcoming anxiety by tapping into creativity, blending neuroscience and sociology to explain how engaging the brain's creative systems can break the anxiety cycle and lead to peace, improved problem-solving and deeper connections with others. 
How To Let Things Go
by Shunmyåo Masuno

An internationally bestselling Buddhist monk offers practical tips and techniques to abandon the futile pursuit of control, teaching readers to embrace calm, focus and well-being amid the relentless demands of modern life and the constant scrolling of social media.
The Let Them Theory : A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About
by Mel Robbins

A simple, transformative approach to improving personal and professional relationships by shifting focus from controlling others to accepting them, offering science-backed strategies to reduce stress, enhance happiness, foster healthier connections, and empower individuals to prioritize their well-being and achieve personal fulfillment.
Toxic Productivity: Reclaim your Time and Emotional Energy in a World that Always Demands More
by Israa Nasir

Being productive isn't necessarily about how you manage your time. It's about how you manage your emotions. It's time to untangle yourself from the web of toxic productivity and embrace a life that is not just productive but profoundly meaningful. Let this book guide you toward a transformative journey of self-discovery-helping you reclaim your time, energy, and joy.
Upworthy Good People : Stories from the Best of Humanity
by Lucia Knell

Communicates the transformative power of kindness through stories of more than 100 good people, brought to readers by Upworthy, the social-media platform where millions find inspiration, joy and daily affirmation.
The Joy of Connections : 100 Ways to Beat Loneliness and Live a Happier and More Meaningful Life
by Ruth K. Westheimer

An guide to combating loneliness, with 100 ways to increase connectivity right now, from the therapist and orphan of the Holocaust appointed the first-ever “Loneliness Ambassador” in the country.
Consider This : Reflections for Finding Peace
by Nedra Glover Tawwab

Inspiring advice for navigating life's ups and downs, and finding ways to grow every day. In this book of daily insights, Nedra delivers food for thought, friendly reminders, and perspective shifts to help us stay true to who we are and what matters most. Topics include setting boundaries, rising above drama, expressing ourselves with clarity and integrity, and finding peace and joy every chance we can get.
The Art and Science of Connection : Why Social Health is the Missing Key to Living Longer, Healthier, and Happier
by Kasley Killam

In this groundbreaking redefinition of health and wellbeing, an internationally recognized expert in social health argues that the definition of wellbeing is missing a major component: social connection, proving that relationships not only make us happy, but they are also critical to our overall health and longevity.
The Joy of an Uncluttered Life
by Joyce Meyer

Many of us understand how easy it is for life to become hectic, stressful, and busy. We are overcommitted, have no free time, and feel trapped in the daily demands of life. But there is good news-you don't have to live this way! In The Joy of an Uncluttered Life, you will find relief from burnout and unnecessary stress with 100 ways to simplify your life. These doable tips will teach you to set boundaries, stay positive, clear out clutter in your life, deal with other people in healthy ways, and more. Even the smallest things we do in a day have the power to bring about more peace, and this book will empower you to make lasting changes in your life. Discover a life beyond stress and frustration and develop a mindset of simplicity and peace!
Just the Good Stuff : No-BS secrets to success (No matter what life throws at you)
by Jim VandeHei

The cofounder of Politico and Axios, two of the biggest modern news outlets, presents this real-world guide to achieving“good stuff” by offering no-BS guidance for building a meaningful, successful and fulfilling career and life in today's complex world—no atter where you start out.
When You Care : the unexpected magic of caring for others
by Elissa Strauss

Weaving historical anecdotes and science with conversations with parents and caregivers, a journalist, against the backdrop of our current caregiving crisis, presents an eye-opening exploration into the power of being depended on—and a call-to-action to acknowledge the breadth, depth and beauty of all that caregivers do.
The Centered Heart : evidence-based, mind-body practices to stress less and improve cardiac health
by Susi Amendola

This book fills a critical niche that has long been overlooked. It specifically focuses on somatic practices to decrease stress and improve heart health. It will combine science, time-tested somatic mindfulness techniques, and patient stories to provide hope and help,
Grief Is a Sneaky Bitch : An Uncensored Guide to Navigating Loss
by Lisa Keefauver

Grief. We've all experienced it. And if we're lucky, we've had support to find our way through it. In her book Grief is a Sneaky Bitch, Lisa Keefauver wants to provide that support through her expertise as a social worker and her own deeply personal experience of loss. Keefauver's advice is framed around the concept of the 5 Ws of grief: why you are grieving, what type of grief, who is grieving, where grief comes from and where it goes, and when we grieve.
Undiplomatic : how my attitude created the best kind of trouble
by Deesha Dyer

In this deeply personal narrative about combating the feeling of self-doubt while being on top of the world, an award-winning strategist, on-the-ground community organizer and executive operations expert reveals how she overcame imposter syndrome, unearthed true love for herself and learned her unique worth is inherently deserved.
Liberated love : release codependent patterns and create the love you desire
by Mark Groves

Through their Create the Love seminars, workbooks and consultation programs, the authors, with the help of real-life situations and stories, exercises, rituals and tools that lead to productive self-examination, educate a new generation of relationship seekers on the best ways to practice and cultivate love.
The college student's guide to mental health : essential wellness strategies for flourishing in college
by Mia Nosanow

Drawing on more than 20 years' experience, a licensed psychologist who specializes in college mental health offers this resource for students, parents and loved ones that breaks down common problems and provides actionable strategies for help to make college a healthy, enjoyable and fulfilling experience.
Worthy : how to believe you are enough and transform your life : simple steps, life-changing results
by Jamie Kern Lima

Sharing her journey of going from Denny's waitress to billion-dollar entrepreneur, the New York Times bestselling author of Believe It, providing simple steps that lead to life-changing results, teaches you how to stop doubting your greatness, build unshakable self-worth and embrace who you are.
The Cure for Burnout : how to find balance and reclaim your life
by Emily Ballesteros

Combining scientific and cultural research, a burnout management coach and TikTok influencer shares the tried-and-true strategies she successfully implemented with clients around the globe to demystify burnout for our post-pandemic world—and set us on a path toward a life of personal and professional balance. 
I Did a New Thing : 30 days to living free
by Tabitha Brown

Presents an inspirational guide for encouraging positive changes in your life—one day and one challenge at a time.
I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki
by Sehee Baek

The Korean runaway bestseller, recommended by K-pop group BTS, translated by the International Booker Prize shortlisted Anton Hur.
Dessert can save the world: Stories, Secrets, and Recipes for a Stubbornly Joyful Existence
by Christina Tosi

The two-time James Beard Award winning chef shares her personal stories and passion for desserts and examines how the combination of sugar, flour and butter can help mark milestones in our lives and provide lasting memories of joy.
How Are You, Really?: Living Your Truth One Answer at a Time
by Jenna Kutcher

The host of the wildly popular Goal Digger podcast looks at how to reevaluate our perspectives about what work is for, what work/life balance really means, and how we want to spend our time on the planet. 
Undistracted: Capture Your Purpose, Rediscover Your Joy
by Bob Goff

Through the pithy and inspiring storytelling that has endeared him to millions, New York Times bestselling author Bob Goff invites you to laugh with more gusto, dream with more confidence, and love with more intention in this disarming call to live Undistracted.
Get Out of my Head: Creating Modern Clarity with Stoic Wisdom
by M. Andrew McConnell

Get Out of My Head is a lifeline for overwhelmed professionals seeking direction and tranquility in turbulent times, whether navigating daily stressors or experiencing defining moments. Author M. Andrew McConnell, CEO of Rented, Inc., shows you it's possible to achieve clarity, make good decisions, and rise in your career, by illustrating that the human mind is not unlike real estate: adopting an owner's mindset can make all the difference.
Lighter: Let Go of the Past, Connect With the Present, and Expand the Future
by Yung Pueblo

Demonstrates how we call all move forward in our healing, from learning self-compassion to letting go to becoming emotionally mature, so that our minds will stop feeling overburdened with tension and we can reconnect to the present and take actions to support the health and harmony of all people.
The Light We Carry: Overcoming in Uncertain Times
by Michelle Obama

A former first lady offers practical wisdom and powerful strategies for staying hopeful and balanced in todays highly uncertain world.
Smart Brevity: The Power of Saying More With Less
by Jim Vandehei

Sharing lessons learned from their decades of experience in media, business and communications, the co-founders of Axios present this writing and communications manifesto for the information age that teaches readers how to say more with less in virtually any format.
Platonic: How the Science of Attachment can Help you Make--and Keep--Friends
by Marisa G. Franco

Drawing on the latest scientific research on friendship, an acclaimed psychologist helps us understand our attachment style by providing a blueprint for forging strong, lasting connections with others to become our happiest, most fulfilled selves in the process.
Endure
by Cameron R. Hanes

One of the worlds deadliest bowhunters shares his secrets of maximizing potential and finding ways to constantly redefine what to expect from ourselves, both physically and mentally.
A Life in Light: Meditations on Impermanence
by Mary Bray Pipher

The best-selling author of Women Rowing North and Reviving Ophelia returns with a series of essays drawing on her experiences as psychologist specializing in women, trauma and the effect of our culture on our mental health.
Bittersweet : how sorrow and longing make us whole
by Susan Cain

The author of the best-selling Quiet discusses how a bittersweet state of mind can actually be a kind of silent energy that aids us in overcoming our personal and societal suffering.
I Came All This Way to Meet You
by Jami Attenberg

From New York Times best-selling author Jami Attenberg comes a dazzling memoir about unlocking and embracing her creativity—and how it saved her life.
You, Happier: The 7 Neuroscience Secrets of Feeling Good Based on Your Brain Type
by Daniel G. Amen

Offering practical, science-based strategies, the New York Times best-selling author reveals the seven neuroscience secrets for becoming more than 30 percent happier in just 30 days.
Find Your People: Building Deep Community in a Lonely World
by Jennie Allen

The New York Times best-selling author focuses on creating ways to creating the kinds of true communities that provide meaningful connection with others and that can have a powerful impact on our well-being. 
Mission Possible : Go Create a Life That Counts
by Tim Tebow

The New York Times bestselling author and athlete shows how having a clear sense of your unique, God-given mission will bring you a lasting sense of purpose to lead a bold, brighter, more fulfilling life.
From Strength to Strength
by Arthur C. Brooks

A social scientist and Harvard professor draws on social science, philosophy, biography, theology and eastern wisdom, as well as dozens of interviews with everyday people to help those over 50 find purpose, meaning and success as they age.
Lost & Found: A Memoir
by Kathryn Schulz

A staff writer at The New Yorker and winner of the Pulitzer Prize brilliantly explores of the role that loss and discovering play in all of our lives, in this part memoir, part guidebook to living in a world that always demands both our gratitude and our grief.
Divine Disruption: Holding on to Faith When Life Breaks Your Heart
by Tony Evans

We have all been through difficult seasons and times in life when it seems like the hits keep coming and you can barely catch your breath. The Evans family knows what this is like, as they’ve experienced the deep grief of losing eight loved ones in less than two years’ time, including the devastating passing of Lois Evans, the matriarch of the family. 
In Divine Disruption, Dr. Tony Evans and his children pull back the curtain on their faith-shaking experiences, in order to provide biblical wisdom and practical encouragement for how to deal with the hard, unexpected things we all inevitably face.
Peak Mind: Find your Focus, Own your Attention, Invest 12 Minutes a Day
by Amishi Jha

Interweaving science and illustrative stories from high-level people who’ve successfully used her techniques, a prominent neuroscientist presents a revolutionary twelve-minute-a-day training program for learning to ignore distractions and take control of your attention. 
The Comfort Book
by Matt Haig

Incorporating a wealth of sources from across history, science and his own experiences, the New York Times bestselling author of The Midnight Library offers reassurance and encouragement for anyone looking for a more fulfilling, more uplifting way through life.
Feeding the Soul (Because It's My Business)
by Tabitha Brown

The popular actress and vegan food star shares inspirational life lessons based on her own struggles, with advice on how to choose joy, learn to walk in kindness and find hope and clarity in our lives.
Set Boundaries, Find Peace
by Nedra Glover Tawwab

A licensed counselor and influential Instagram relationship expert shares simple but effective recommendations for how readers can establish healthy relationship boundaries, successfully have their needs met and be assertive without being offensive.
How to Do the Work
by Nicole LePera

The expert behind the popular @the.holistic.psychology Instagram account outlines alternative-therapy approaches to improving mental, physical and spiritual health by tapping the power of the self to overcome trauma and create a more authentic and fulfilling life.
Professional Troublemaker: The Fear Fighter Manual
by Luvvie Ajayi Jones

The award-winning podcaster, motivational speaker and author of the best-selling I’m Judging You shares whimsical, transformational advice based on her grandmother’s techniques to counsel readers on how to overcome fear-related obstacles and pursue meaningful goals through disruptive choices.
What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
by Bruce Duncan Perry

Oprah Winfrey, sharing stories from her own past, and a renowned brain development and trauma expert discuss the impact of trauma and adversity and how healing must begin with a shift to asking, “what happened to you?,” rather than “what’s wrong with you?”.
Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know
by Adam M. Grant

The bestselling author of Give and Take and Originals examines the critical art of rethinking: learning to question your beliefs and to know what you don't know, which can position you for success at work and happiness at home. 
Your Time to Thrive
by Marina Khidekel

The experts from Arianna Huffington’s Thrive Global offer science-based advice for how to establish small, healthy habits for sleep, nutrition and other self-care practices to counter burnout, reduce stress and unlock personal potential.
Believe It: How to Go from Underestimated to Unstoppable
by Jamie Kern Lima

The founder of IT Cosmetics, who has become the first female CEO of a brand in L’Oreal’s 100+ year history, reveals how she, a once struggling waitress, turned her against-the-grain idea into an international bestselling sensation despite self-doubt, body-doubt and God-doubt. 150,000 first printing. Illustrations.
Cleaning Up Your Mental Mess
by Caroline Leaf

"Bestselling author and neuroscientist offers 5 proven steps to help you overcome the unhealthy thinking habits that contribute to anxiety, depression, and intrusive thoughts, and replace them with positive thinking that leads to health, happiness, and success"
Breakup Bootcamp
by Amy Chan

Based on her own experience with heartbreak, a relationship columnist offers a thoughtful and practical guide to using the pain of a breakup to shake off complacency and shed destructive habits to heal and transform yourself.
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